And things will go smoother

You’ve accepted. You’ve Uketamo-ed. But someone you love and care about is yet to come around. They may even hold your acceptance against you.

But you know they’re just wasting their time. You know that you have enough acceptance for the two of you. Then once, at least in your mind, if you accept on their behalf, it all gets easier. That is but one power of Uketamo.