Defining your current moment
Do things that define ‘you’ in the moment, but don’t let people define ‘you’. Don’t even define yourself. You decide who you are. No one else. But moments change, and so do you.
Do things that in the moment define who you are. Then do them again. No need to define yourself from past moments, and no need to define yourself from future moments either. Start with defining your now, and work from there.