There are certain things that take priority, and for those things it is paramount that you make an allowance. Often this allowance has to be more than what you expect, so be very lenient when making them. These allowances should grow in proportion to the importance, so how important you deem something determines how much extra allowance should be given to it. Get your priorities straight, and make allowances in accordance with them, basically.
Tim Bunting
KIWI YAMABUSHI