You gotta make the effort to meet people you haven't met in a while. That's the lesson from today. I don't like using Facebook or messenger, I'd much rather phone or actually meet people. You have to find the balance between what's practical and the distance or time between meeting people in real life. I always prioritize meeting people in real life and when I have that chance I always put my phone out of reach, cos then you lose the chance for connection, that you worked so hard or waited so long for.