To get what you wanna get, you gotta get a lot of stuff you don’t wanna get, but that includes the stuff you wanna get. Then, you try and get more of the stuff you wanna get, rather than the stuff you don’t wanna get.

With a bit of practice, you’ll increase the ratio of stuff you wanna get to stuff you don’t wanna get. You’re still gonna get some of the stuff you don’t wanna get, but it won’t be as common as when you started out. This is because you’ll better know what it is you wanna get, and you’ll also know how to get it.