What’s the alternative?
Sometimes you have such misfortune all you can do is laugh at the absurdity of it all. You question why these things had to happen at all, and why they had to happen to you of all people.
That’s just the way it is. Sure, there could be an alternative reality where these misfortunes don’t exist. But is that your reality?
Think long and hard enough and the answer is the same. It is what it is. No need to get worked up about what could have been. Just focus on your current reality. After all, what’s the alternative?