Making a decision makes things so much easier. Once you have something set in stone, you can base your following questions on that decision, not on the 'what ifs'. It also affects your motivation. Once you've decided that you're going for something, and you're truly committed, it means you can back yourself more. That's why […]

Should have done it years ago. There's too much emphasis here on buying a house and it's hard not to see why, there's just too much money to be made, or lost if you're stuck renting. I don't blame people for investing in property one bit when their gains aren't going to be taxed, and […]

Last night we got to see the RHCP light up the show. It was pretty awesome hearing them live, and they played a good mix from their later albums (BSSM onwards), as it wasn't an album tour 🙂 although there was a lack of Scar Tissue and Go Robot, the song I got my wife […]

There's something special about seeing people in real life. It's much better to see someone in person than talking to them on the phone, or god forbid SNS. When you do, make sure you take the time to get close, it gives you the chance to see some things that you otherwise wouldn't be able […]

Patience is a virtue. I think that is true. People really respect you when you are patient, and they reciprocate by being patient back. I’d rather someone give me the time I need to do something than have someone put pressure on me which in turn just makes things take much longer, and may not […]

Since we’re on the topic of swimming and waterpolo, I’ll give you a little lesson that I learned 15 years ago at a waterpolo tournament. It’s amazing how much I can remember from this, it must have been that dramatic, but during the pool stage our team was facing the at the time #1 team […]

The people at the pool get it. The people at home don't. Even if your aim is to be the best swimmer in the world, the only way you can do that is by swimming. Even if your aim is to lose weight by swimming, the only way you can do that is by swimming. […]