Who’s to blame?

My five year old niece is going to have to learn the hard way sooner or later. We were playing volleyball, where I would set the ball up for her to hit back to me. Only every time the ball didn’t go the way she wanted it to, I heard ‘Tim, I thought I told you to throw it straight’.

It gets annoying, and when it happens over even the slightest thing, when it was clearly not my fault, it makes you want to say something. Perhaps I should have said something, but it was too much fun seeing how much she believed the words coming from her mouth.

Isn’t it funny how we try to put the blame on others, even when we are clearly at fault? Better to think twice about who’s to blame when you’re pointing the finger, especially when the stakes are higher than volleyball with a five year old.

ENJOYED THIS? HAVE MORE.

MOUNTAINS OF WISDOM

Subscribe to my yamabushi newsletter

RECENT BLOG POSTS

classic stone sculpture of resting male
Locals and the Default Option
close up photography of cherry blossom tree
Playing the System
woman carrying boxes in new apartment
Ownership

YAMABUSHI BLOG POSTS

authentic chochin japanese paper lams hanging on old shrine
Dealing with quirks in other languages
young athletes preparing for running in training hall
Lean in
A lesson from snowboarding

RANDOM POSTS

Take the leap
retro traditional paper indoors
You’ll never be ready
red flower on white sand
Made with love
Tim Bunting Kiwi Yamabushi

Tim Bunting Kiwi Yamabushi

Get In Touch

Sakata City, Yamagata, Japan 

tim@timbunting.com

Share this:

Like this:

Like Loading...
Scroll to Top